Women often fantasize about being manhandled. But if you were to just manhandle her, it'd be the wrong way about it. That's because they like aggressive passion to come in installments and not suddenly. Of course, once she gets your way of doing things, that is, the way of a man who is confident and interested only in her pleasure, then she can trust you to be the troglodyte deep down inside she really wants you to be.
Men brag about stuff their possessions, envision and try to procure status, and spend little investment in understanding that which is puzzling and mystifying to them such as women. It seems ironic that they wouldn't since it is a subject that obsesses them all throughout the course of their lives.
They have been persuaded to give up, that women represent an unsolved mystery or that they only want men with means to give them all the things that they want and not much else. Men will spend their lives following the advice of people like their fathers and mothers, but fail to realize that that is a recipe for disaster: what do they know about? They've probably have been married for ages, secretly resenting one another, and not know how fate handed them such lousy cards. Of course, there are parents who are very wise when it comes to the romantic arena, but it is unlikely that they'd give it to you. Those who really know about these things tend to keep it to themselves because this is explosive material.
Most have experienced a form of abuse at the hands of their male counterparts, and those who choose a much milder type of male, often ridicule and humiliate his passive ways, as if they secretly despise them. Nothing angers them more than a man who lets her take control, settling for a miniature version of that adventurous wanderer, nomad, bad-ass male prototype that every little girl dreams of ever since puberty. So, be the badass she dreams of, the type of guy she naturally respects because he has a sense of style and self-worth. He will not put up with her shit and though she might still give it to him, he'd take it nonchalantly, with a degree of disengagement that makes her crave more of that manhood stuff: stout self-control.
Most have experienced a form of abuse at the hands of their male counterparts, and those who choose a much milder type of male, often ridicule and humiliate his passive ways, as if they secretly despise them. Nothing angers them more than a man who lets her take control, settling for a miniature version of that adventurous wanderer, nomad, bad-ass male prototype that every little girl dreams of ever since puberty. So, be the badass she dreams of, the type of guy she naturally respects because he has a sense of style and self-worth. He will not put up with her shit and though she might still give it to him, he'd take it nonchalantly, with a degree of disengagement that makes her crave more of that manhood stuff: stout self-control.
Give her importance, of course; but not all of the importance. She shouldn't be what your world revolves around; she's in your world, she's part of your world, no doubt VIP status, a key player, an extraordinary adviser, but she's not it. It should be more than her and she'll love you for it; she may say that she wants to be the most important thing there is, but the minute that's the case, you no longer are all that important to her. You can be with or without. It'd suck to be without but how long before I am with again? Maybe a week,
So, in a way, I bring them closer to their most sinister intimate urges, having them laid at my feet, under my will, ready and begging to please. Women are far darker in their desires, as it is a man that she yearns to have by her side and such man will not be easily swayed in her direction because a man she can trust won't play nice just to please her. He may be nice, but have a backbone to his niceness. That is why women behave the emotional way, whereas if a man was to behave in such a way in his daily living, he may not make it out alive. If you go to a bar looking for a fight, you will find it. Don't be that guy that goes into a shouting contest with his girl; instead, be the guy who gives her the attention that she yearns from a man, that is, little of it and only if she's earned it. You wouldn't lose your head if a toddler starts acting up. It is something you should expect and it is bound to happen from time to time; the same is true of women.
So, in a way, I bring them closer to their most sinister intimate urges, having them laid at my feet, under my will, ready and begging to please. Women are far darker in their desires, as it is a man that she yearns to have by her side and such man will not be easily swayed in her direction because a man she can trust won't play nice just to please her. He may be nice, but have a backbone to his niceness. That is why women behave the emotional way, whereas if a man was to behave in such a way in his daily living, he may not make it out alive. If you go to a bar looking for a fight, you will find it. Don't be that guy that goes into a shouting contest with his girl; instead, be the guy who gives her the attention that she yearns from a man, that is, little of it and only if she's earned it. You wouldn't lose your head if a toddler starts acting up. It is something you should expect and it is bound to happen from time to time; the same is true of women.
It is easy to fake the strength, but if you want the good quality of strength, you ought to work for it. You gotta be able to have your own life, have things going for yourself whether these things are of the spiritual, material or esoteric kind; you ought to work out if you want to be really stronger, not necessarily be the strongest, but be your strongest. Take good care of yourself and the things that make up the one you are. You get an entitled, egotistical creature that cannot be tamed, subdue her power, or domesticate her ways. It's ironic that they try and try to change their man, only to be disappointed when that change takes place because that is what they say. Do not listen to her, it is only her way of proving if you can really live up to the expectation of a man who will not be easily swayed by her devilish ways. Now, that is not to say you will not take out the garbage or be about taking care of business, that part has to be taken care of. Because if she complains about your laid-back attitude, your bad hygiene, your drinking, then that might be advice you want to take and thank her for in a wholehearted and nonchalant way. You don't want to do what she says the moment she demands it, but take note of it, let her know you understand her and make less of a bad situation.
It means, we learned to compromise. Of course, we can't go out sexually assaulting others, let alone women. It's cute when they take the initiative and try and jump us. Even if she loses control and throws the remote control or become physical. Take it lightly, say something like: "You hit like a girl." Deescalate, do not engage her.
Because of a more democratized world, a sense of civility governs our most depraved drives, our primitive impulses dulled from a very early age. First, our parents; then schools, jobs. Surrounding us all, at every stage of our upbringing, the rules are laid out. Some of us don't make it even to be considered good lovers. We ought to be civil in our dealings with others, but when it comes to making love you can summon some of that animalistic nature that lies dormant in every one last of us. Do so in a fun and calculated way, don't take it literally; you do not want to pull her hair, you want to hold her in place with a fistful of it. You don't want to slap her; you want to spank her, bite her, without leaving evidence. Her moody ways come from the same place that her sexual desires emanate. Drink from that fountain with abandonment, and make sure she gets a taste of it.
Don't give her too much space, just enough to fall in.
Comments?
Direct them to my email:
damiarenas1@gmail.com
No comments:
Post a Comment