Keep your cool

On a chemical level, having approximately seven times more testosterone may not be a blessing after all; on a cultural level, being raised by women who resent the desserting nature of men or by couples where in order for the relationship to work, the man has, since long, been domesticated by the wife-factor, is no good either.
Therefore, it may sound crazy at first, but one of the ways to attract women to you is by killing your desire for them and keeping your manhood intact. Somewhere along the way, you may come across the horrible prospect of choosing between your woman and your character (i.e., personality, beliefs, peace of mind, etc); but you will also see that by sticking to your guns, you will have them feeding off your hand. So what is the most essential element in the equation? The ability to stand your ground which translates simply into never giving in to their caprices and absurd demands. Treat these psychosomatic peculiarities of the fair sex with a high dose of indifference, allow them to manifest without ever letting them get to you (it takes practice) and if you find it unbearable just firmly but calmly call them off on their behavior. Or, better yet, simply walk away. Like repremending a child, it is useful to speak with an authoritative, masculine tone: the idea is to make light of a situation and not to get on a who-can-raise-their-voice louder kind of contest. Because unless there is a substantial amount of money involved, no one wins anything by coming victorious out of an argument. So if her complaint is legitimate, nonchalantly admit to your wrongdoing, correct the situation if possible, and move on.
Keeping your cool in the initial stages of a seduction will throw off the most gorgeous creature a little bit. Now, the idea is not to ignore her but to rather behave in a way as if her actions or words had little effect on our state of emotion. The point is, few things are quite as exciting to the fair sex as a man who seems or is completely unmoved and yet firmly relaxed whenever around them. It, in turn, helps them to relax and be more comfortable. Like a predator sizing up his pray, keeping your cool is perhaps the most crucial tool at your disposal. It signals to her that you're not desperate, and she will have to resort to other means in order to destroy your self-assured composture.
What is the most common thing men do when they are in front of a beautiful woman? They either (A) get inexplicably anxious or they (B) plain and simple, don’t know what to do, or even if they do attempt something is usually (C) aimed at a need for proximity or closure, or they (D) disguise behind a friendly stance. There are even those who pretend that she is not there. There are those who put their focus right on her anatomy. The list is endless. We’re way too direct in our approach, or way too inhibited, or way too unattached, or way too friendly. Being way too much anything is part of being a man. Undoubtedly, it is easier said than done: after all, how do we put aside our emotions and get on with the job at hand? Remember: it is not something you're doing for anyone else to notice but for yourself. You're not out to adopt a few tricks just so that you can impress a pretty girl at work. What good is it to appear calm and sure of yourself in the face of others when you in fact aren't? In order to deal effectively with others, not just women, keeping focused and centered on your goals and making light of situations will go a long way. So:

• Instead of "building up the courage" to go and talk to her, focus instead on how you feel. The idea is not to get all worked up, tense and overtly taken whenever the object of your desire is around; the idea is to keep the sexual agenda off the table for a little longer and be completely relaxed about the whole ordeal.
• Remember: the only thing that is really under your control is yourself, so stop worrying about how others may perceive you or how others will respond to you. That is beyond your power; overall, people will treat you the way you treat yourself. You have to creat the feeling that you have something to offer, so conduct yourself with integrity.
• Be unshakeable: if there is to be an earthquake, you should be the last thing standing!
• If she behaves like a little girl, treat her like one. In a condescending manner, say things like, "Oh, poor baby is having a fist" or assertively compromise: "If you behave I'll give you a treat", or in a sly, cocky, slow-paced, emphatic context, pass the following judgement on her: "You look so cute when you're mad". Use an assertive, masculine tone. If none of these work, let her difuse on her own terms and if it exceeds more than a minute or so, just turn slowly towards her and say: "Want to know what I really think about this conversation?", then turn around and exit the room.
• Get used to rejection: It's part of life, and you should deal with it. Many times, the girl will reject you just to see your reaction. Understanding that rejection has little, if anything to do with you will help you out of your self-absortion and the ever constant need to live in your imagination where the world always seems fair to you. You're a conqueror, a warrior, and poking fun at you, ignoring you, hurting your feelings are the only weapon girls have against you: it's not like they can physically beat you up or suddenly come up to you and pick you up. So take that toy away from them and they will be with nothing left.