The process of domestication

In the animal kingdom, pain is the tool of choice when it comes to turn –whether it is a pet or an enemy nation –into what we want. This occurs socially, and while we may agree or disagree but the truth is that pain as well as pleasure are inescapably the reason and the force behind all human actions. That is what keeps me in my toes, what makes me get up from bed every morning: the horrible prospect of finding myself without an income. So, how do we train others –especially women –to treat us the way we deserve? Firstly, the way in which the interaction goes says a lot about the hierarchy among the subjects involved. In other words, we may be telling others with our actions exactly how we would like to be treated. A way in which animals do it is by keeping their heads higher and scanning to see if there are any rivals on sight. For this, they use eye contact; humans, too. Remember, we've been only speaking for a few milleniums; literacy is in its infancy. We would like to believe ourselves all very modern and while we have achieved a significant degree of technological advancement, every age has thought of itself as the most modern that ever existed. Our species, in general, is very much a new one in evolutionary terms.
Upon seeing you, a woman may already have subconsciously figured out facts about your persona: your approximate age, your social status, your mental and physical health, even if you are the dominant type. In order to find out more about you, she may lower her defenses by making visual contact, smile or even adopt a stricter manner. The trick is, whatever her position, you must at all times keep your cool, as if there's nothing she can do to shake your ground. And if you pique her interst, she will try just so to sort out exactly what you're made of.

• Respond to others only if you consider it necessary: people will often play to your vanity to get their way. Do not respond to women in the same submissive way in which most men will: by making themselves available.
• Always keep eye contact until the other person retrieves it. If they mantain the glance, then you can be first to smile and shortly thereafter greet them.
• Pay attention to your posture: You should always stand up with your chest out, sit upright, and do not fiddle. Your body and your mind are aligned so while attempting to appear natural, make the effort as well to feel just so.
• Oxigen is your most precious ally: control your breathing, and you shall conquer the world. Concentrate on your breath as if it were a flowing current of energy through your body. Tightening the muscles in your stomach as you breath deeply from it will bring more oxygen to your brain and enhance your social relations.