The answer you seek

Typically, a male may find himself swallowed by a myriad of questions: What do I do in the first encounter? How do I approach a complete stranger? What do I say on our first time out? What should I wear? Have I been cursed genetically with the shy gene? You name it!
While it may be almost impossible to answer all of these questions in a singular effort, my personal experience has served me enough to pinpoint with complete abandonment the essentials. Here’s my take: Look, if you find yourself with all of these or some of these questions, stop and think for a moment how girly really are you? In other words, it is the woman, in my opinion, the one who has to put herself in that position of uncertainty. The man has to be the one who leads her out of that state! Let me rephrase: we are not to take things wholeheartedly, especially around them. That is why they are completely taken by the man who seems not to care too deeply or have all of these inner dilemmas, the one who takes charge and seems always in control, the centered, and the most serene of them all.
Are you still confused? Let me spell it out: the behavior you’re adopting is precisely what keeps you away from being surrounded by a sea of girls. You could literally swim in an ocean of them if you learn to stay afloat without a care in the world whenever you’re near them. Keep in mind the following:

• You don’t need them; you want them. You are the man, this is a gift. Use it wisely. Real men don’t fall in love and they do not take too much crap either. If the load is too heavy, just set it aside and keep on your journey.
• Never take things emotionally: this is huge, so repeat it over and over. It works even in other social aspects like whenever your guy friends want to poke fun at you. Things that normally tear other people apart, you should just disregard. Laugh in the face of rejection, good things take pain and effort. Those around you will notice it. Always, under any circumstances, keep your “cool” aura comes from, being not too distant and at the same time not too far, not too cold or not too hot.
• Be like a mountain: immovable, mysterious, seemingly unreachable, peaceful, quiet, somewhat dangerous and full of life.
• Have a life of your own: in order to be with the “one”, you have to become the “one.” When you’re full and leading a satisfying life all of your own, others are drawn to you everywhere, especially girls. So go to college (dropouts do poorly, trust me), earn a degree, save to buy yourself a decent car, have your own studio, your personal projects. Don’t make your life revolve around women: you’ll never be happy.
  

That is all that I can think of. I’m getting ready to go out and enjoy life on this Friday night. If something else comes to mind, I’ll be sure to let my faithful followers know at some other time. And remember: the answer you seek is in the questions you ask yourself daily!